مِشْكَاةُ الْمَصَابِيحِ
Mishkat al-Masabih 472, 473
Purification
Associating with one who is defiled, and what is permitted - Section 3
وَعَنْ حُمَيْدٍ الْحِمْيَرِيِّ قَالَ لَقِيتُ رَجُلًا صَحِبَ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَرْبَعَ سِنِينَ كَمَا صَحِبَهُ أَبُو هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ: نَهَى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنْ تَغْتَسِلَ وَالْمَرْأَة بِفَضْلِ الرَّجُلِ أَوْ يَغْتَسِلَ الرَّجُلُ بِفَضْلِ الْمَرْأَةِ. زَادَ مُسَدَّدٌ: وَلْيَغْتَرِفَا جَمِيعًا رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ وَالنَّسَائِيّ وَزَاد أَحْمد فِي أَوله: نهى أَنْ يَمْتَشِطَ أَحَدُنَا كُلَّ يَوْمٍ أَوْ يَبُولَ فِي مغتسل وَرَوَاهُ ابْنُ مَاجَهْ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ سرجس
Humaid al-Himyari said, “I met a man who was a companion of the Prophet (ﷺ) for four years, as was Abu Huraira. He said that God’s messenger forbade that a woman should wash in water left over by a man, or that a man should wash in water left over by a woman.” Musaddad added that they should use it together. Abu Dawud and Nasa’i transmitted it, and Ahmad added at the beginning, “He forbade any of us to use a comb every day, or pass water in a bathing place.” Ibn Majah transmitted it from ‘Abdallah b. Sarjis.
Mishkat al-Masabih, 472, 473صَحِيح, صَحِيح (الألباني)