رِيَاضُ الصَّالِحِينَ
Riyad as-Salihin 1661
The Book of the Prohibited actions
Prohibition of Bewailing the Deceased
وَعَنْ أم عطية نَُسيبة -بضم النون وفتحها- رَضِيَ اللَّه عَنْهَا قَالَتْ : أَخَذَ عَلَيْنَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّه عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عِنْدَ الْبَيْعَةِ أَنْ لاَ نَنُوحَ. ((مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ)).
Umm 'Atiyyah (May Allah be pleased with her) said: At the time of giving the pledge of allegiance, the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) took from us an oath that we would not wail. [Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
Riyad as-Salihin, 1661