رِيَاضُ الصَّالِحِينَ

Riyad as-Salihin 276

The Book of Miscellany

Recommendations with regard to Women

- وَعَنْ عمرو بْن الأحوض الجشمي رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّه عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي حجة الوداع يَقُولُ بَعْدَ أَنْ حَمِدَ اللَّهَ تَعَالَى، وَأَثْنَى عَلَيْهِ وَذَكَّرَ وَوَعَظَ، ثُمَّ قَالَ‏:‏ ‏ ‏أَلاَ وَاسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا فَإِنَّمَا هُنَّ عَوَانٌ عِنْدَكُمْ لَيْسَ تَمْلِكُونَ مِنْهُنَّ شَيْئًا غَيْرَ ذَلِكَ إِلاَّ أَنْ يَأْتِينَ بِفَاحِشَةٍ مُبَيِّنَةٍ، فَإِنْ فَعَلْنَ فَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ، وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ ضَرْبًا غَيْرَ مُبَرِّحٍ، فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلاَ تَبْغُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلاً، أَلاَ إِنَّ لَكُمْ عَلَى نِسَائِكُمْ حَقًّا، وَلِنِسَائِكُمْ عَلَيْكُمْ حَقًّا، فحقكم عَلَيْهِنَّ أَنْ لاَ يُوطِئْنَ فُرُشَكُمْ مَنْ تَكْرَهُونَ، وَلاَ يَأْذَنَّ فِي بُيُوتِكُمْ لِمَنْ تَكْرَهُونَ، أَلاَ وَحَقُّهُنَّ عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ تُحْسِنُوا إِلَيْهِنَّ فِي كِسْوَتِهِنَّ وَطَعَامِهِنَّ‏ ‏ ‏(‏‏(‏رَوَاهُ التِّرْمِذِيُّ وَقَالَ ‏:‏ حَدِيثٌ حَسَن صَحِيح‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏

'Amr bin Al-Ahwas Al-Jushami (May Allah be pleased with him) reported that he had heard the Prophet (ﷺ) saying on his Farewell Pilgrimage, after praising and glorifying Allah and admonishing people, "Treat women kindly, they are like captives in your hands; you do not owe anything else from them. In case they are guilty of open indecency, then do not share their beds and beat them lightly but if they return to obedience, do not have recourse to anything else against them. You have rights over your wives and they have their rights over you. Your right is that they shall not permit anyone you dislike to enter your home, and their right is that you should treat them well in the matter of food and clothing". [At- Tirmidhi, who categorized it as Hadith Hasan Sahih].

Riyad as-Salihin, 276
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