رِيَاضُ الصَّالِحِينَ
Riyad as-Salihin 277
The Book of Miscellany
Recommendations with regard to Women
وَعَنْ معاوية بْن حيدة رَضِيَ اللَّه عَنْهُ قَالَ : قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَا حَقُّ زَوْجَةِ أَحَدِنَا عَلَيْهِ؟ قَالَ: "أَنْ تُطْعِمَهَا إِذَا طَعِمْتَ ، وَتَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ وَلَا تَضْرِبِ الْوَجْهَ، وَلَا تُقَبِّحْ، وَلَا تَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ " حَدِيث حَسَن رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُد وَقَالَ: معنى "لاتقبح" أي : لا تقل قبحك اللَّه.
Mu'awiyah bin Haidah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: I asked Messenger of Allah (ﷺ): "What right can any wife demand of her husband?" He replied, "You should give her food when you eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, not strike her on the face, and do not revile her or separate from her except in the house". [Abu Dawud, who categorized it as Hasan].
Riyad as-Salihin, 277